Your best friend is in a car accident and you two got into a fight an hour before. What do you do?
This is easy. People fight. I wouldn't love my best friend any less because we had a fight. In fact I would be a complete wreck and horrified that the last things we said to each other we not loving words. This is actually a big fear of mine. Losing someone I love, or having them get injured, and having the last conversation with them have been something hurtful. It's the reason I am usually the first one to apologize after an argument, and the reason I end all my conversations with "I love you".
I can tell you I would be headed straight to wherever my friend was, whether I needed to get there by car, bus, plane or train. Nothing would be stopping me from being by my friends side.
I think this one is pretty cut and dry for me. I don't hold grudges, I love with all of myself there is to give. A fight, big or small, would never keep me from being with someone I care about in their time of need. Be it a car accident, a sickness, or a bad day. It's just how I am. Life is too short to dwell on a fight or argument. Get it out, get past it and move on, don't let it stand in between you and the people you love.
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